Is ‘maths anxiety’ affecting your child?

This week, I read with interest a report revealing the results of a study carried out by the Cambridge University Faculty of Education and the Centre for Neuroscience in Education, exploring children’s maths anxiety.

I remember those feelings very well from when I was a child and despair that there are still children feeling like that today – some of them as young as six.

There are so many factors that can exacerbate a child’s belief that maths is scary, not least of all the tendency for some parents to claim that their child ‘gets that from me – I was always rubbish at maths.’

It’s as if we’re expected to find maths more of a struggle than other subjects, and that anyone who actually enjoys it must be some kind of genius.

Really, it doesn’t have to be like that.

The problem in primary schools is that many teachers are not maths specialists and have been conditioned to believe that maths will always be a struggle. (I remember once sitting up all night preparing for a year six lesson on ratio.)

Of those teachers who are maths specialists – in primary and secondary – some are inclined to believe maths should be as easy for everyone as it is for them. Once it’s been explained, what’s not to get?

Unfortunately, for every pupil who ‘gets it’ there’s another who doesn’t. That pupil might get it eventually, if only there were time and resources available to present it to them in different ways. Our schools are more underfunded than ever at present, so for many that’s unlikely.

There needs to be more time spent on allowing children to understand ‘how’ the numbers work, rather than just a reliance on learning what to do with them. This should involve being allowed to play with counters, Lego, money … anything that brings to life how different maths patterns and concepts work.

Parents can play a huge part in this – even those parents who think they’re ‘rubbish’ at maths. As well as encouraging children to spend more time playing with some of the above, let them help with stuff at home.

Cooking: weighing (measures); adapting recipes (ratio); cooking times (algebra, time).

Shopping: finding the best value (division, ratio, percentages); budgeting (money, adding, subtracting, multiplying, dividing).

Decorating: measuring a room (units of measure); working out how much paint/ wallpaper might be needed (area and perimeter); designing a pattern for tiles (symmetry, ratio) – anything that encourages them to experience real life maths in action.  

Much of this probably sounds pretty obvious, but I know from when my own children were at primary school, I was inclined to think those things were covered in the classroom.

If we can get children to see that maths isn’t just this abstract, inaccessible subject, we can help to ease their anxieties.

‘That’s not how I was taught.’

Possibly one of the most frustrating things about helping your child with maths is how much the teaching has changed since you were at school.

My children were already at primary school when I began my teacher training, and I was often completely stumped by some of the weird and wonderful methods they insisted on using instead of the few methods I still remembered learning from that bloke with the leather elbow patches.

‘No mum! Miss says we have to use a number line/ the grid method/ partitioning/ chunking … ‘

The what, now?

Once I began watching teachers in action during my training, a lot of those weird methods started to make sense, and there were a few I wish I’d been taught at school.

I struggled with maths at school. Well, let’s put it another way: I struggled with how maths was taught when I was at school. I’m guessing that’s the case for many children who struggle with maths today – and with many adults who struggle to help their children.

Many schools hold workshops for parents where they show the methods they teach to children. These workshops don’t always fit in with parents’ busy lives; even if they did, there are many parents who are perfectly confident with their own maths abilities and don’t relish the thought of being taught to suck eggs by their child’s hip, twenty-something teacher (who probably specialises in a subject other than maths anyway).

Other schools provide booklets that include the methods taught, but these can cause confusion for those parents whose own maths confidence isn’t great. Watching and doing are much better methods of learning than reading instructions written by someone who probably doesn’t understand what it’s like to be frightened of maths.

All this isn’t helped by the continuing change. I work with many year six pupils who remember being taught ‘hundreds, tens and units’ for place value but who are now told it’s ‘hundreds, tens and ones’. Some still say ‘units’ (as do I, sometimes: it’s a hard habit to break after decades of saying ‘units’).

Today’s methods focus on getting children to understand what is happening to the numbers – the reasoning behind the concepts. This is great when children are confident enough to try these methods for themselves, but not so great for those who need their parents’ help but can see that mum or dad is also struggling to understand.

I remember clearly searching the internet for ‘how to help my child with maths’. Now I know and hope I can help you too.

‘That’s another day I didn’t need algebra!’

You’ve probably seen those amusing memes on social media, along the lines of the title above.

There are many aspects of maths for which pupils – and parents – ask, ‘When will this ever be useful in real life?’ Algebra is the topic that comes up most often in these conversations.

You wouldn’t expect year 6 algebra to be beyond the wit of the average adult, but actually some primary teachers struggle with it as well. Don’t be disheartened if you struggle to help your child with maths.

I have to be honest, a lot of algebra will be forgotten and never needed (unless your child is planning on studying maths beyond GCSE) but some aspects are used in our everyday lives more than we realise.

One example is formulas (or ‘formulae’ if you want to be pedantic) which is just one sub-strand of the year 6 algebra strand within the key stage 2 maths framework.

Most Sundays, I cook a roast dinner. To avoid having my family ending up in Addenbrooke’s with E. coli or salmonella, I use my grandmother’s recommended formulas for cooking meat properly.

She recommends cooking beef by putting it in a very hot oven for an initial 20 minutes, then lowering the temperature and allowing 30 minutes per kg of meat. Because some members of my family won’t eat beef if there’s a hint of pink, I add another 10 minutes to the cooking time.

Cooking time = 20 + (30 x weight) + 10

Although I don’t write it out to look like a year six algebra problem, algebra is exactly what I’m doing.

When you get someone to look at your faulty car/ computer/ mobile phone/ whatever’s decided to let you down this week, it’s likely you’ll be charged an initial fee for the appointment, plus however much that person charges per hour. The same if you book a taxi or hire machinery.

Think about all the occasions in everyday life when you need to use formulas and see if you can get your child to help you calculate some of them: algebra makes a lot more sense when it’s applied to real-life situations. Then get your child to say: ‘That’s another day I needed algebra!’